Barbie and Shelley's 
Commitment Ceremony
Ring Ceremony

 
photoRing Ceremony Priestess Kathy speaks:
The ring has great symbology in many traditions.  Barbie and Shelley have chosen to wear rings to symbolize the sacredness of their promises to one another. The design on their rings is a Celtic knot – the trefoil – a three-fold spiral representing their individuality and their relationship.
They asked the matriarchs of their families to bear their rings for them.  These two women have been an inspiration to Barbie and Shelley’s lives.

Barbara, will you please get the ring carrier from your grandmother, Frances? 

And Shelley, would you please get the ring carrier from your aunt, Rose?

We will charge the rings with the energy of the cardinal directions of nature as a blessing to this commitment.
 

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Grandma Frances, 
Barbie's ring matriarch

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Aunt Rose, 
Shelley's ring matriarch

photoKristen, Priestess of the East, speaks her own words:
The element of Air is known to embody the attributes of Clarity, communication, and Thoughtfulness.  And so today, I call upon the powers of AIR to infuse these rings with these very properties.  So that as Barbie and Shelley slip these rings onto each other's fingers, they will likewise be empowered with ever growing Clarity, Communication, and Thoughtfulness in their life together.  Blessed Be.
photoKaren, Priestess of the South, speaks her own words:
Fire represents South, and symbolizes passion, creativity and psychic connetion.  I charge these rings with fire.  For you, Fire will heat a fuel that ignites a passion for love and life that grows ever stronger within you and between you.  For you, Fire's light will shine within your hearts and minds, opening creative expression and connectedness with each other and all around you.  For you, Fire will embrace the passion of eternal times that binds the love that keeps you together, for now, and forever.  Blessed be.
photoLaura, Priestess of the West, speaks her own words:
Barbie and Shelley, it is with great love and honor that I charge these rings with water.  From your vast oceans, mighty rivers and mountain streamlets.  It is water that sounds a love that is eternal.  It is from water that life springs here and forever.  Flowing, purifying, healing, soothing water.  With water for you love, the life spring comes from iwthin and wells up, with us, from us, for you.  Blessed Be.
photoKate, Priestess of the North, speaks her own words:
Mother Earth, please bless these two rings with your own attributes of shelter, nurture, susenance and groundedness.  Link them together to symbolize the wearers' walk toether upon this planet.  Blessed Be.
photoKat, Priestess of Spirit, speaks her own words:
Barbie and Shelley are the embodiment of the Goddess.  Let these rings be charged with the spirit of their higher selves.  Let these rings be charged with the divinity each bear within them and let them always recognize and remember each oterh's divine self.  Let all that is good and pure and holy be instilled in these rings.  So mote it be.
photoKathy, Ring Ceremony Priestess, speaks her own words:  Lastly, I am going to charge these rings with oneness and unity.  The circle has no beginning and no end.  Love has no beginning and no end. Gold does not react.  It stable.  Its is shiney.  it is brilliant.  It is precious.  And so is love and so are your rings.
photoBarbie says to Shelley: These rings bind the circle of our lives. 
photoShelley says to Barbie: Wherever we wear our rings, we will be reminded of our sacred pact.

In unison, to each other: That we will always hold sacred space in our hearts for each other. 

Each takes turns placing the ring on the other's finger.


 
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